Motivation and communication

TalkLiftGrow

Simple ways to talk about dreams, set goals for each person and for the family together, and support your children's needs.

Conversation prompts

Start a talk at the table

Pick one question. Ask it at dinner, in the car or at bedtime. Listen first.

  • What is one dream you have that we have never talked about?
  • What made you proud of yourself this week?
  • How can the family help you with your biggest goal right now?
  • What does a great year look like for each of us?
  • What is one thing we could do together that we have never done?
  • What is something you are worried about that we could solve together?
  • Who in the family could use some encouragement today?
  • What would you try if you knew you could not fail?
Try one now

What is one dream you have that we have never talked about?

Goals

Individual goals. Shared goals.

Everyone gets a goal that belongs to them. The family gets one too.

  1. 1

    Each person picks one

    One goal that matters to you personally. Say it to the family.

  2. 2

    The family picks one

    One goal everyone can work toward together.

  3. 3

    Check in often

    Ask each week, how can I help you with yours?

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Supporting children's needs

Hear them. Back them.

Children dream too. Their needs and ideas belong in the family vision.

  • A

    Ask, then listen

    Ask what they need to chase what they love, then really listen to the answer.

  • B

    Make room for their goals

    Put their goals on the family board next to everyone else's.

  • C

    Celebrate effort

    Notice the work, not only the result.

Weekly encouragement

A fresh note every week

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